Being human means having thoughts and feelings we like and thoughts and feelings we don’t like. The good news is we aren’t our thoughts and feelings.
The Word of God divides our soul and spirit for us and shows us how our souls (thoughts and feelings) fluctuate and are meant to. Therefore, in our soul we can think or feel anger, fear, jealousy, etc. and not be ruled by them. The Word of God reveals to us that we are joined to the Lord spirit to Spirit and we can simply let the thoughts and feelings pass through without having to engage them at all. We stand fast in who He says we are and that’s one spirit with Him.
We simply walk in the Spirit and we won’t fulfill the lusts of the flesh. It’s the same answer for everyone no matter what the temptation or pull is. If you’re feeling jealous, walk in the Spirit. If you’re feeling angry, walk in the Spirit. If you’re feeling offended, walk in the Spirit. It doesn’t matter what the flavor the temptation is the solution is always to walk in the Spirit!